the role of satan in pre marriage plan

Subject: The role of syaitan in Pre-marriage plan
Sent: Tuesday, September 30, 2003 5:11:33 PM

Another good article. Let ur guys read this. This does happen in realworld.
Bismillahir Rahmaanir RahiimIn The Name of Allah, Most Gracious and Most Merciful Have you heard of so many break-ups between Muslimin and Muslimah beforethey are married? Words and promises of Marriage are suddenly shattered,when one partner leaves the other, or hurts the other by beingunfaithful.Allah has mentioned in the Quran that our enemies are the Syaithan andIblis. The whisperings of the Syaithan can be tempting and cause oneselfto act foolish.

They can upset one's plans to marry.Take for instance, a man has promised a woman that he'll marry her andtake care of her. It is a pure and noble intention in the Sight ofAllah. Men are the Protectors of Women.But along the way, the Syaithan whispers in his heart, saying that he'snot ready, he has work commitments, he's too busy and so on.

The mansoon forgets his promise and that marriage is Sunnah in the Sight ofAllah. He eventually breaks his promise to the girl, and breaks up withher. The girl, not knowing what's going on felt cheated because he haspromised her. Iblis also makes work and money more important thanmarriage.Syaithan also plays an important role in confusing men which woman tomarry.

Men are naturally attracted to pretty women, but physical looksdoes not mean anything. For example, a man might even be attracted to'sexually suggestive' nicknames of women in the internet. Nicknames like"Applelicious" or "Sexy Lips" and more are all introduced by the Syaithan. It contains sexual messages and men might feel attracted tothese nicknames.True Muslim women will not use such nicknames to attract men.Men, whohave weak iman might even start conversations with women who have thesenicknames. They then indulge in haraam relationship. Eventually, they commit sins and earn Allah's Wrath.

In Islam, men are required to choose women with good faith to Allah.Looks, wealth and heritage do not matter in Allah's Eyes. Syaithan andIblis often confuses people. So many hearts are broken when people want to marry, and in the end, the partner leaves her.Besides, men who toy women's feelings have earned Allah's Wrath. Menshould treat every woman with respect.

Do not hurt any woman's feelings,especially your mother, your wives, daughters and also the weak and ill Muslimahs. If you want even more of Allah's Baraqah, look for a piousdevout Muslimah. Even a sickly but devout Muslimah is better than ahealthy but malicious woman. Remember, a sicklym Muslimah is more favoured by Allah, than the one who uses suggestive nicknames.

Choose your wife wisely. Remember, a pious Muslimah is your strongestweapon against Syaithan and Iblis!

Kejadian berpasangan juga sebagai saluran untuk meneruskan keturunan manusia.Allah S.WT. berfirman:
"Wahai manusia bertakwalah kepada Tuhan kamu yang menjadikan kamu semua dari jiwa yang satu dan dijadikan daripadanya pasangannya dan berkembang daripada keduanya banyak lelaki dan perempuan... "
(An-Nisa':1)